2010年8月26日星期四

29-year-old is the monster does not love it?

Yesterday, received a 29-year-old woman left a letter:
 
  
"Dear sister Fang, hello, read your book there is a desire on the impulse to write to you.
    
I am 29 years old, work in a large state-owned enterprises, the university mother is very strict, did not love the opportunity to work in previous years has been like something was so busy last year found that Kaoyan may really does not belong to me, so give up.
    
Give Kaoyan Another important reason is my mother that severe, I am afraid of falling in love when small, it is every day urging me to go to each other and even her old, I still love this age, is simply not normal, mothers also called the family to carry out ideological education for me, I have now moved out from home to bloom, and their renting.
   
Sometimes I really can not stand, and families high-handed policy, wished for me to come back from the construction site to find unskilled laborer can, with little attention to my feelings. I think I was 29 years old, I'm young, I've never been passionate love, I really want to feel a real love. But parents said I was too unrealistic, go first to individuals married is the case. No matter what kind of blind date each other, my mom feel good, as I say inappropriate, the old lady got angry and said I was too critical, I do get angry, then when I fall in love, Who you are not giving me the opportunity of.
   
In the units, now gradually had monster sense of my colleagues that I meet are 29 years old under the sun not fallen in love is like the biggest mistake! Tanya, my sister does not understand why I must love, must be in accordance with the life of someone else's eyes, I want love, but not unprincipled to accept ah!
   
I live in dire straits, others feel that I am 29 years old do not love is the monster, I really do not know what I did wrong! "
 
    
To tell the truth, read this letter, I was very sad, a girl 29 years old without loving, it is a very common thing, positive guidance, maybe soon there will be love to come, but all the pressure of invisible let this girl created an antagonistic mentality, and finally held up their emotions.
    
Now society woman on the left over concern for many parents of psychological somewhat normal, the child is just early 20s, they were forced daily to each other for fear of being down, in fact, the benefits of late marriage and late marriage are so only luster single life is the most important.
     
In a big city like Beijing, 29-year-old is really nothing, women in several of the 30 began to fall in love, people feel very happy ah.
    
The mentality of parents worry their children will often be overwhelmed, beggars, looking casually married individuals, and finally flies are not happy, suffering more.
 
    
Therefore, I urge this girl to have a good your single life, gusto, happy, this is the most important, you know, this world must have one for you, he was waiting for you in the front.
    
For the people around her, I invite you to relax, relax, and then relax with Fate, do not you worry, people do do that, and not to the fate, family and friends too nervous, can only be counterproductive. 
本文来自新浪博客;http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_4847df010100lc1l.html?tj=1
作者;王芳

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