I do not know when to begin the "female students" the word has gradually been alienated, like the original "Miss" as the term was originally a neutral term, now unwittingly become a derogatory term. Mention of female college students, people are more associated with "being and nurturing," "sugar daddy" "second wife" "Little Three" and so these immoral words.
In search engine search on "female students" is key words, we can see the headlines almost all of the "second wife" "was and nurturing," "rape", etc. These are words related to eye-catching, and found to The pictures are mostly bare, almost pornographic photos! The female students often hold major negative news forums and website prominently. Recently, proved to be false information but still enduring the "major college virgin rate list" posts, "students will be expelled when the mistress," "in August by doctors as" student crowd on "news again female students into the cusp. Many users are eager reproduced and comments, and questions on this issue: how the female students now? female university students are now fallen yet?Here, I want to say that the female students did not fall, but was demonized. Yes, undeniably, there are some female students who fall, but after all, only a small number of female students in this group were distorted values. In fact, female students in this group have been misunderstood Misunderstood, was demonized. The reason is very simple and can not because there is a stain on a piece of paper, try to deny this white paper. The same can not because there are a few female students as a second wife, away that all the female students are morally bankrupt.The reason why female college students were demonized as immoral and even contains an erotic significance of synonymous, the media and society should take primary responsibility.To some extent, the term female college students become victims of some publicity-seeking media, become the victim of yellow journalism. In the eyes of some journalists and editors, news headlines in with "female students" in the eye will be fully apprehended, so will do anything to highlight the status of female college students, even if the parties have not the students. In the hands of the media, female college students has become to win the attention, and the click rate of the tool. Prominent in the media constantly, transmission, amplification of the case, the public has formed on the stereotype of female students, female students had already entered the Chinese Moral Decay the illusion of age. Media rendering, public misunderstanding, people's impression of female college students caught in a vicious circle, over time, represented by a few people the image of female students was solidified, and was demonized.In fact, the "second wife", "third party" is absolutely not representative of female students.Universities, there are a considerable number of wealthy families have to even up the students, even if the poor are actively fighting the students why they take the mainstream media made no mention of female college students? Ultimately, the lack of a sense of responsibility of some media, simply pandering to the reader the novelty of female college students mentality, this attitude led them to focus, to exaggeration, to misunderstandings, to blame. As everyone knows, the media's responsibility is not simply pandering to readers, but the right to guide the audience, some media seem to have the responsibility to guide public opinion, forgetting the.In addition to the media, the social environment of morality today is demonized female students the most fundamental reason.We criticize and accuse those who choose to be and nurturing, while a small number of female university students, should think about their moral anomie, behind the existence of a deeper crisis and the real background?A university professor in the phrase, "moral decline of individual female students, only a representation of social and moral decay, a victim, but also one of the victims."30 years of reform and opening up, our society has rapidly evolved into a commercial society, the rapid economic development, people's moral standards to enhance the rate is far below the GDP growth rate. Today's Chinese society into a money society, a moral collapse of society, a considerable number of people or light or heavy presence of money worship, chasing people indulge their desires, no longer willing to be bound by the moral and rational. In the adult world, the pursuit of interests and sensory satisfaction of moral degeneration has been widespread.
This is the background of today's college students grew up. In such an immoral, rational and reduced the time, desire and interest in such a society above all else, will inevitably lose some of his female students, worships money and seeks profit, the lack of stigma and self-esteem.These lost their female students, the final act as a very tragic role: they were playing with power and money, was the public accusations and verbal abuse, and finally abandoned.However, we should not criticize them just go to the onlookers? We also need to reflect the community also need to reflect, first of all because of their degradation is a social stigma, the shame of universities and education, our social and education to blame for their downfall!So, What shall we save the image of female college students are social misread it?The most important thing is the great environment of social and moral need for a "Great Leap Forward." This depends on the education role. It is imperative that the community should be the one-way street from the material out, to pay attention to social and moral development. Not to say that "hands are grasping with both hands," it? It is obvious that the hand is soft and spiritual civilization. Do not just "material life in the broad road maneuvering," while ignoring the "spirit of the moral trail wandering in the stoppage."On the other hand, the media should enhance their sense of social responsibility, not just chase hits, should stop the misunderstanding and the use of female college students to assume responsibility for the correct guidance of public opinion to guide the public to change the bad taste.Finally, people should strive to improve the quality of their moral and rational, fair and objective treatment and evaluation of female university students. Meanwhile, female students themselves have to self-esteem, and establish a correct outlook on life, values, attitudes about money and love, to resist abnormal vulgar society, to establish confidence in a beautiful, independent reason, the new youthful image of female college students.
本文来自新浪博客;http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_5fd794f40100kth4.html?tj=1
作者;李金磊
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