80 China can cope with prospective parents to raise children

Into the siege, entered the marriage hall, "children, parents" to put in the schedule in a couple. Then, as prospective parents after 80, raising children's mental preparation you really ready? After the loss of some 80 into the siege, when the father and mother, began to regret it. Limited income, expenditures are increasing everywhere have the money, but could not find money at. A cute little baby coming, not only bring joy and warmth, but also to add a monthly bill and major items of expenditure. Moreover, the child's birth will be a heavy financial burden. Father and mother are not willing to eat are also not willing to wear, let the child eat too well, who would be willing to see their children and "Xiaoluobotou" as the poor? But to live a good, you have to spend money, you have overhead. Originally a monthly housing loan repayment and let the family stretched their daily expenses, and also what means raise a kid? Therefore, those who have to repay the monthly car loan house wife, the best or the repayment of such loans have relatively quiet about, based on a certain savings when to have children, so the pressure will be smaller, family conflicts will be less. Of course, too late to have children can not generally no more than 32 years old woman, men do not exceed 36 years. It has been said, 80 is very poor generation after generation: the time in elementary school, universities do not want money; read in college, elementary school do not want money; not to find a job when the job is assigned to find a job time, but could not find work. This indicates that 80 needs to face this generation's problem. But after 80 is the most literate generation, because their parents attach great importance to education, Zaguomaitie also for children. So, a family of education spending was the major expenditure. As a result, many people find the book finished, the family has a poor chink. At this point, but also to the age of marriage, just say how much money a house? No house can only be "dwelling." Heap together all the real thing so that 80 were extremely difficult, plus it is now working hard to find, so many do not dare to think of marriage after 80, let alone the children of the marriage! Some 80 children did not want to, because students from the poor to feed, they have to face things that there are many difficulties not resolved. If you do not have enough strength and ability to rash to a child, life may be hell broke loose completely. So after this we advise 80: must have sufficient financial capacity and the mental preparation before considering to have children, or really care because the child and love each day keep arguing. That your marriage is no longer stable the ... ... Write this, may have 80 friends to say, and do we not do less income parents yet? Of course not. The proposal in front of me, is the best material to provide a good basis for the child. Here, I'll tell you is that if there is no sufficient financial ability, we should have "poor" keep the mental preparation. In fact, regardless of whether the family rich, relatively speaking, I have advocated the "poor" care. Now, after 80 millionaire, even billionaire does have, but that is a minority, even 10 million annual income is only a small part, most are still in two or three thousand dollars monthly salary times the thin . Moreover, most of the 80 parents who are working after layer, for school children completed a child into a home to give is running low. So, after marriage husband and wife can only rely on their own efforts, of course, even if the parents have money, as has been married for 80 again after the parents do not reach. No money does not mean that there would be no children, so hard over the past days, my parents are still bringing up our seven children, a dozen years ago I was not a good economic conditions, I will not develop adult daughter. So, to give their children a good foundation course material is good, if not good condition, we can meet the necessary food, clothing and basic child education costs, can still raise healthy happy children. Of course, a premise that, after 80 new parents have the appropriate plan and plans to do good "bitterness" of the mental preparation.


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译者；谷歌翻译       作者；东子教育