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2011年2月27日星期日

How to control Gaddafi of Libya?

Shenzhen Satellite TV "Live Macao"(2011-02-24)
A Libyan border guard
Moderator: Now a senior commentator Mr. Chen Bing connection immediately. Chen, Libya's Gaddafi situation is not conducive to the direction of the Sharp, the world is pulled out, Gaddafi's control has shrunk to the capital, why he did not sign a little soft clothing? Chen Bing: Good evening, America Xi. Because he is Gaddafi, easy to service if the software is not "African Lion" was. However, if we look at Obama's speech this morning, you will find in it is gorgeous porcelain bowl full of water, Gaddafi to see that tasteless, so not very Dali, continue to consolidate the fort in the capital. Why the United States to make Gaddafi castle to stay up in it? There are two reasons, first, the Americans have not completely withdrawn from Libya, and second, he can not find the future leaders of Libya, and who do not know the words. Gaddafi is not bandits, he was very clear, saying the United States, you can not make him the bullets fly, so in his "last drop of blood" speech on television, the site selection in the 1986 bombing of the U.S. had a residence in front next to him is a huge sculpture, depicts a fist grip is broken American fighter scenarios. This is for the United States issued a stern warning, if you dare to come hard, I will be more hard, the Americans will now in Libya to pack up. Obama made a statement this morning, in fact, pushed back the time, because withdrawal of American ships, the storm was intercepted, the delay set sail in Libya. Obama's speech full of abstract ideas, no specific measures in the fight for time, so all the Americans to retreat, and he may be implemented so-called "round resort." In addition, the Libyan market like the Middle East, North Africa, before stepping down in power, there are anti-government organizations or opposition leader, the United States to find people to speak, and Libya it is now unable to find opposition leaders, all stragglers. So, let Gaddafi in the castle to stay up, waiting for a new leader is born.
  
Moderator: It is said that Libya's military equipment is poor, but now there are reports of military disobedience, some soldiers to freedom, then what is the Gaddafi regime rely on to maintain his strong fortress it? Chen Bing: a very special case of Libya, Muammar Gaddafi does not depend on the military to maintain political power, unlike many countries, is "the gun in the regime."Libya relied on the militia, the Revolutionary Committee, trusted tribal leaders, spend money on hiring mercenaries to maintain political power, and if the words more clearly, is to rely on spies, secret agents, secret police to maintain political power, a bit like the KMT period of the system, the military system. Well informed of these people, such as an interview with foreign journalists, is the security personnel accompanying, will respondents report that all the words are up, there is something wrong, and immediately suppressed. Still others called "people's militias", spread the grassroots level, in fact, spies, snitch, and they put all kinds of information especially for the Gaddafi regime less information is passed to the "person tent "Gaddafi is around people. Who encountered the pack how to do it? By the mercenaries to do it. Small number of mercenaries, but Gaddafi very loyal, but also hard to start and always put the people's house to burn, or to use weapons to kill demonstrators. They do not execute the command in the army when the act as "SCS." The other is the tribal leaders, many appointed head of Gaddafi, and then let them fight each other, mutual supervision, the result is no one recognized him the husband, no one dare not against him. Can be said that Gaddafi's governance is "political agents" placed a lot of eyes and ears, give rise to panic, terror more serious.Even now in some places has been the opposition control, but there are many Libyans fled abroad with their own worries and there are spies among the demonstrators, in the usual suspects.
  
Moderator: Gaddafi is of military origin, their title is "Colonel", he did not further develop the army, relying on Army? Chen Bing: Gaddafi in 1969, came to power through military coup. He was worried that the military strong, and will learn their own, relying on the military to overthrow their own change. Therefore, the Libyan army for the relatively poor, about 4 million people, has not trained with the BBC as saying that the Libyan army is a "haggard troops" only symbolic, it is food. These days there is reported that senior officials in the army announced it has joined the ranks of opponents, the military flew defection, or military disobedience, this is not a threat to the Qadhafi, because not much fighting. Control of mercenaries and his son the secret police force, there is fighting. Now there is not a mercenary disobedience news.
  
Moderator: Does this mean that Gaddafi in his stronghold to stay longer, more people will be killed? Chen Bing: I guess so. Today, I have seen many videos and photos, Libyan fighter jets and helicopters are indeed in the attack by the rebels, some of the streets is full of bullet casings and artillery shells, a town west of Zawiya, yesterday I was still the hands of opponents, and now Gaddafi, who has been captured. When the opponents gradually approaching the capital, the Gaddafi will definitely be counter-offensive. Starting today, tug of war has begun. This is a civil war. I even worried that Gaddafi to uphold the bastion, it is likely to grab some foreigners as hostages, as the capital for future blackmail. I look forward to the Chinese people in Libya, quickly ran, ran out of this bloody place.
  
Moderator: So what outsiders do something to stop the bloodshed in Libya? Chen Bing: Libya, the countries concerned, has been considering how to restrict Gaddafi. Such as the EU considering sanctions, cut off economic ties with Libya, Gaddafi family's overseas assets frozen, it was suggested that the United Nations to take measures to implement the no-fly zone, the Libyan isolate. But these are still on paper, before the withdrawal is not completely foreign countries is difficult to reach consensus, the international community to take concerted action, almost impossible.Together with Libya's oil is very rich, countries are careful to right, fear not the future and do business with Libya. Now the international oil price has risen close to 120 dollars a barrel did not, we can see the importance of Libyan oil. Was also suggested that military intervention, but I think it is not based, Libya has not invaded other countries. Likely outcome is that the blood of Libya, and now could not stop.







翻译;谷歌翻译
本文转载自新浪博客;http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_543e8b230100piuj.html?tj=1

2010年10月24日星期日

Chinese and the Nobel Prize(华人与诺贝尔奖)

李政道:1926年生于上海,美籍华人(获奖时为中国国籍),1957年获诺贝尔物理学奖,时年31岁;
  杨振宁:1922年生于安徽,美籍华人(获奖时为中国国籍),1957年获诺贝尔物理学奖,时年35岁;
  丁肇中:1936年生于美国,美籍华人,1976年获诺贝尔物理学奖,时年40岁;
  李远哲:1936年生于台湾,美籍华人(现已放弃美国国籍,回到台湾),1986年获诺贝尔获化学奖,时年50岁;
  朱棣文:1948年生于美国,美籍华人,1997年获诺贝尔获
  
中国人诺贝尔奖得主
物理学奖,时年49岁;
  崔琦: 1939年生于河南,美籍华人,1998年获诺贝尔获物理学奖,时年59岁;
  达赖十四世: 1935年生于西藏(应该是中国的青海省),中国国籍,1989年获诺贝尔和平奖,时年54岁,但中国政府拒绝承认;
  高行健:1940年生于江西,获奖的同年加入法国国籍,2000年获诺贝尔获文学奖,时年60岁。
  钱永健:1952年出生于纽约,美国华裔化学家,中国著名科学家钱学森的堂侄。现为美国科学院院士、医学院院士,美国加州大学圣迭戈分校化学及药理学两系教授。他发明多色莹光蛋白标记技术,为细胞生物学和神经生物学发展带来一场革命。2008年10月8日钱永健与马丁·沙尔菲、下村修共享诺贝尔化学奖。
  高锟:1933年出生于中国上海,英美双国籍,曾任香港中文大学校长。2009年因在“有关光在纤维中的传输以用于光学通信方面”取得了突破性成就,与发明了半导体成像器件——电荷耦合器件(CCD)图像传感器的博伊尔和史密斯共同获得诺贝尔物理学奖,时年75岁。

2010年8月3日星期二

中国男人太幸福 中国女人太优秀

 文:梦语 / 图:涓涓
办公室同事约翰虽早已娶妻,却从未生子。不生子也不工作的妻,最大的爱好是购物“血拼”。当约翰在办公室里忙得焦头烂额时,刷爆了信用卡的妻常从公司附近的商城里打电话来让约翰去救驾。接了电话的约翰总是长吁短叹,忙中添乱。所以在我眼里,约翰很不幸。他的不幸,源于他是个美国男人,更加不幸的是,这个美国男人娶了个美国女人,一个不挣钱却花钱的美国女人。

反观周遭包括我本人在内的中国女人,不管时代如何变迁,”谁知盘中餐,粒粒皆辛苦“的古训永记心上,随之而来的,不仅是珍惜粒粒盘中餐,更是节约袋中每个铜板。我们量入为出,勤俭持家。中国人的数学本来就比美国人好,中国女人的数学更比美国女人的数学好上加好。中国女人知道水电的单价,从而毫不困难地可以算出上班出门前关掉冷暖气,下班后回家再开,一个月下来可以节省多少费用,并身体力行。中国女人每晚为自己,也为丈夫,准备好第二天去公司上班的午餐,在用中国美食抓牢丈夫的中国胃,从而进一步抓牢丈夫中国心的同时,也计算出了每月在美国食堂节省出的午餐开支。美国女人说每个职业妇女都当之无愧地该享有一个家庭清洁钟点工,中国女人却算出了美国钟点工太贵,还是我们夫妻动手,其乐无穷吧。中国女人也血拼,可多半不是在我们公司附近的商城,而是在远郊的各品牌直销部,在过季打折的货架中。同样是名牌,原价码后面加上个折价的“%” 数学符号,对于数学学得好的中国女人,吸引力更大。所以,有个数学学得好的中国女人做妻子,中国男人是幸福的。不管家庭收入如何低下,不管美国经济如何不景气,每个中国家庭在美国银行里永远会有一笔即使不多,也足以应急的存款。中国男人更不必为刷爆的信用卡担心,因为中国女人懂得15%的高利贷意味着什么,从而决不会给这信用卡公司发放高利贷的机会。

在节流的同时,中国女人更在创收。中国女人的数学不仅仅是用在家庭账簿上的,更是施展在讲台前,实验室里,华尔街上。美国女人的学历多半是大学毕业,中国女人的学历却多是硕士博士。女教授,女科学家,女经济师,女医生,女律师...... 真正是“时代不同了,男女都一样,男同志能做到的事,女同志也一样能做。” 女同志英雄了,男同志也就幸福了。美国家庭的年均收入在2007年是50233美元,截至目前变化有限。在美国的中国家庭一般收入远远超过此数,究其原因,很大一部分是因为美国家庭中很多太太不工作,中国家庭不仅是双收入,而且还是双高收入,所以中国男人是幸福的,移民来美,不消几年,便携着高收入的中国女人,幸福地走进了美国中产,甚至高中产之列。

当有妻无子的约翰焦头烂额地处置太太刷爆的信用卡时,当中国男人正在兴高采烈地数着太太赚回的钞票时,我们组又来了位新同事,名字麽,正好也叫约翰。但此约翰非彼约翰,家中有一妻三娃, 老大是儿子,老二老三是女儿。此约翰的太太当初与他大学同窗共读,情愫渐生,毕业后共结连理。生完两个孩子后太太又要生老三,约翰说世界上只有两种娃娃,男娃和女娃。我们每样都有一个了,还要老三么?怎奈太太满腔母爱,两个孩子还不够她施与,坚决要怀老三。肚皮长在女人身上,这种事当然女人说了算,约翰只好屈就。生完老三太太宣布要在家相夫教子不再工作了,约翰理所当然地挑起了养家重担。约翰勤勉卖力,工作起来简直是没日没夜, 也颇得老板赞赏。饶是如此,一遇风吹草动,公司裁员,约翰的紧张便溢于言表,可不是么,身上抗着嗷嗷待噗的一大家子呢。但不管约翰如何废寝忘食,每月的最后一个周末却决不加班加点,而是要急着赶回家看孩子,因为那是太太定期的闺密聚会时间,一帮女人相邀着或去Spa,或去看戏,或去远足。“平时天天在家看孩子做饭也难免生厌,总要换个环境轻松一下,”约翰对我如此解释。我想告诉他这些话别跟我讲,最好去跟中国男人讲,但是我的嘴巴张了又张,还是生生把话咽了回去。

我最终把话咽回去,是因为中国女人决不会“沦落”到约翰太太那样在家围着锅台转的境地,所以这番解释,对于中国男人毫无必要。中国女人是喊着“妇女能顶半边天”口号成长起来的女人,熟知半边天的重要意义和深远内涵。半边天,在外是社会地位,历史责任,中国女人要和男人一起并肩战斗,开疆拓壤;半边天,在家是孩子学费,房贷车款,中国女人要和男人一起胼手胝足,养家糊口。中国女人的自尊心不允许自己当个伸手问丈夫要钱的寄生虫,中国女人的危机感也不允许自己赋闲在家寅吃卯粮。即使中国女人近墨者黑,被这西方世界的西风吹昏了头,也想学那约翰太太解甲归田洗手作羹,首先她的老妈老爹就要坚决反对,寻死觅活,接着七姑八姨一起上阵,轮番劝说:“十几年寒窗苦读,最后你怎能只做个家庭‘煮’妇?”“独立啊,要独立,没了工作经济不独立,以后丈夫面前只能养他鼻息。”“你从小出类拔萃,还出洋留学,现在居然要当家庭妇女,让我们面对家乡父老有何颜面?”于是中国女人面壁思过,谁让我们又聪明又能干呢,能干能干,就是能者多劳,不干都不行。唯一的选择就是披挂上阵,重返职场。幸福的中国男人自始至终听凭丈母爹娘对老婆的劝说,斯文扭捏,不置可否,最后坐收渔利,掩着嘴在一旁偷乐。

中国女人自动辞职无门,但如果被公司裁了员呢?那就更得马不停蹄地寄简历,赴面试,恨不能第二天就找到第二份工作,借以向亲友,更向自己证明,裁员是经济危机的错,而非本人的渎职懒惰。我的一位女友,电机学博士,于公司风雨飘摇行将整合关闭的前夕,未雨绸缪,在外州找到了工作,只身前往。不过她不是只身一人,而是只身带着三个孩子,其中一个才蹒跚学步。在美国,由于客观的环境和人为的法律,抚养孩子比在国内更加操心劳力。当留守在本地的丈夫上班工作,下班享福,过着一人吃饱全家不愁的幸福日子时,她正上班卖力,下班卖命,家里家外,片刻不歇。她从没想过像约翰太太那样每月要和女友外出,如果某个周末丈夫能来帮她做一天饭,看一天孩子,那就是莫大的幸福。

我还有一位女友,电脑博士。她先于丈夫出国,先于丈夫拿到学位,先于丈夫找到工作,并帮助丈夫办好绿卡。总之她的英语比丈夫讲得好,在求学就职的路上比丈夫走得快,而且下班回家后的家务更是做得又好又快,不仅做得好,做得快,而且做得理所当然,心甘情愿。她说女人就要有女人样,上得厅堂,下得厨房,厅堂里琴棋书画,厨房里煎炒煮炸。公司里是专家骨干,得心应手,从容若定;回到家是贤妻良母,相夫教子,温婉聪慧。旧时妇女,嫁作人妇,别无选择,而今天的中国女人,出门女强人,回家女主人,两种角色转换的背后,是同一个信念的支撑:自我选择,自我挑战,自我实现。

于是我终于明白了,幸福不是天上掉下来的,也不是地上冒出来的,这世界上从来就没有救世主,也不靠神仙皇帝,中国男人的幸福,是中国女人用智慧,用辛劳,用青春和血汗,和中国男人一起打拼出来的。中国男人是无限幸福的,因为中国女人是无比优秀的。

酒香不怕巷深,花美不惧春迟,不管优秀的中国女人如何内敛,如何低调,在这世界大同,国际接轨的今天,千万个不堪本国太太重负的约翰们,借助高鼻,循着酒香,利用大眼,探着花踪,来和中国男人一起情场争夺了。记得2009年新浪首页有篇文章“为什么中国女人愿嫁外国男人”,草根名博首页首条也有过此专题。相当数目的文章认为很多中国女人想嫁老外,攀高枝。这类言论不少,不管作者是男人还是女人,肯定都是中国人。我就不懂,同为中国人,为何要看低同族同种的中国女人。中国女人本是凤凰,何来麻雀攀高一说?怎么就没人写篇“为什么外国男人愿娶中国女人“?不过这文章没啥写头,要写也就一句话。如同上文所述,外国男人愿娶中国女人和中国男人为何如此幸福都源于同一个原因:中国女人实在太优秀。

高鼻大眼的乔治就是发掘优秀潜质的明眼人。他比此约翰和彼约翰都聪明,没娶一个无职无薪的美国太太,而是在与中国男人的情场角逐中,抱得中国美人归。才貌俱佳的中国太太是位财会师,幸福的乔治和她生了两个中西合璧的芭比娃娃后,惨遭裁员。但是先知先觉的乔治早就先知先觉地娶了位中国太太,双职工不仅意味着双收入,而且意味着双保险。在美国经济不景气的今天,有多少家庭的丈夫像乔治那样没了工作,又有多少中国女人的工资不只是补贴家用,而是独挡全面!三个月后,乔治在外州找到了一份签约两年的工作。财会师太太下班后,一人带着两个孩子往返于学校,体操房,游泳池,绘画班。。。。。。每月乔治飞回来两次,夫妇俩就一起带孩子去游泳,绘画,看到孩子在泳池里遥遥领先就眉开眼笑,或者全家一起滑雪溜冰,其乐融融:
中国男人太幸福 <wbr>中国女人太优秀(图)
                                                                      涓涓画于2007,时年8岁

 
半年后财会师太太的肚子又大了,乔治每个周末都要飞回来。看到他们并肩而立在泳池畔,如同初恋情侣般拉着手,轻声私语,我就想,原来天下幸福的并不只是中国男人,我这文章的题目应该换成:“娶了中国女人的男人太幸福”。
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后记:台州老弟曾邀约众博友以两性情感为题写文,各抒己见。怎奈我早过了恋爱谈情之龄,实在写不出卿卿我我,你侬我侬的言情文。但见身边中国女性,为人为己,天天奋斗不息。遂有感而发,补交台州作业一篇。由于年龄及地域所限,我生活中接触到的及本文所描写的女性,均为生活在海外的50后,60后,70后华人女性。80后,90后及国内女性不属本文范畴。不是她们不优秀,而是我对她们不够了解。
作者;梦语桑园